Alcoholism Is More Lethal For Women

In the long run, Alcohol is more harmful than other substances. Period. Long-term abuse of alcohol in women has more health consequences than for men. It comes down to biology; women's bodies are more sensitive to alcohol's poisonous effects. Read more here:

http://www.drugrehab.us/news/alcoholisms-effects-in-women/

Minding the Mind: What Is Mindfulness

By now everyone has read and heard about this thing called mindfulness. If you believe the hype it can help you eat less, become nicer, smarter, more relaxed and less stressed. Sounds good, doesn’t it? So, what is it and what’s the catch?

It's difficult to write about it because how do you describe a state of consciousness without sounding hokey? But I hope that the following will pique your interest enough to look into it for yourself. 

First, let’s look at what it is. 
1. Mindfulness is a state of mind we aspire to. It is a meditative state through which we can experience passage of time fully awake and conscious. It is being aware of your senses as you go about life in the here and now. The intention is to center your attention through your physical self and less from your inner, thinking self. Brain is part of the body and so whatever feelings and thoughts that arise throughout the day, they can be experienced for what it is in the present. You can be mindful and enjoy food, feel close to your friends, have a deep a conversation and feel and emotionally connected — meaning, any activity can be experienced mindfully.

2. Regular practice of meditation will make it easier to connect to the mindful state. It’s like running, the more you run, easier running becomes. 

3. It’s paying attention to the “thing” which you are doing, whether you are engaged in deep, meditative breathing, walking your dog around the park, washing dishes, reading, listening to music, or having sex.

4. It’s noticing the chatter that fills your head. When you become more mindful, you will notice many thoughts, memories and feelings come to your awareness; mindfulness is not letting your attention fall on them and letting them take you into the past or the future. Think of it this way: You are walking down the street with a destination in mind, and you run into people you know. You say hello and greet them pleasantly, but do not stop and get into conversations, because you are headed somewhere else.

5. Mindfulness is understanding that the chatter — inner voices, negative self talk, flashbacks, cravings, obsessions — is the source of our anxiety and depression. I don’t mean to say anxiety and depression will cease to happen or that it shouldn’t happen, but that we can quiet the chatter which is responsible for unnecessary anxiety and depression.

And, what it isn’t:

1. Mindfulness isn’t being distracted. Everyone experiences the discomfort of doing something or being with someone without being fully present. Your inner self is elsewhere, thinking or feeling something not in the present. It feels as if you are holding two conversations or doing two things simultaneously, which is exhausting. Focusing on what you are doing will actually enrich your experience.

2. Ignoring physical states: if you are hungry, eat something; if you are tired, take a break or nap; if you are angry, talk or write about it; if you are lonely, reach out for a connection, whatever that may look like; if you are in pain, physical or emotional, do something to lessen or stop the pain. The idea is that we can’t tune in with the here now if these primary needs go unmet. It’s like trying to operate a car that has no gas or has a major mechanical problem. In order for you to function optimally, you need to take care of your self. 

3. Giving up because you can’t “get mindfulness right.” Perfection, or in this case being completely attuned to the present, is something we aspire to; it motivates and gives direction but perfect mindfulness is not possible. Go easy when you find yourself distracted, gently redirect your attention back to the here and now and the task before you.

Here is a link to a guided meditation which is a very good introduction to meditation, and it will actually help you relax!

Addiction, Depression and Antidepressants

I read with great interest this piece on The Fix called The Dumbest Article You'll See About Addiction, and that's about right. The writer, Maia Szalavitz, is responding to a criticism of her original piece, in which she shares how Zoloft had saved her from a deep depression after kicking a serious heroin and cocaine habit she picked up during college. Twenty years later, while still prescribed Zoloft, she describes how it dramatically improved her mood and the way she responded to the world (depressed people, she says, tend to misread other people's facial expressions), that she has had a successful writing career and a very satisfying life. 

The second writer, critiquing on Slate, says that Szalvitz merely replaced one addiction with another, and asks the astoundingly naive question why we are easier on pill poppers than alcoholics. It's difficult to believe that her editor or anyone else on staff, let slide her ignorance and insensitivity to issues of mental health. While it’s true Big Pharma has integrity issues, the fact is anti-depressant medications and other psychopharmaceuticals dramatically improve, if not save, the lives of many, many people.

Be sure to read the many comments on both pages. It's a serious subject matter that affects many people.

Pain Killing

More women are dying from overdoses of narcotic pain medication than cervical cancer or homicide. They tend to be poor, older white women living in rural areas who are also taking medications for depression and anxiety.

Some of the reasons for this trend are as follows: Pain medications are readily available; women are prescribed pain medication at higher doses; women are diagnosed with depression and treated with medications at a higher rate. Women who are single mothers struggling financially are more likely to experience symptoms of depression and anxiety (duh!).

It’s somehow rational that an unhappy or depressed person would succumb to the quick, narcotic relief delivered in a pill. Why not take a respite from pain when it simply means swallowing a pill, even though taking this short cut can mean dealing with serious consequences such as full-blown addiction and even overdose. One symptom of depression is a shortened sense of time or the inability to consider the future at all; so the depressed person is not likely to consider the risks involved when self-medicating with an opiate.

This phenomenon illustrates the fact that substanceabuse and mental illness are two sides of the same coin. It also shows that personal choices and lack of proper planning can cause stresses later on. At the same time, government policies also create hardship that contribute to poor mental health. And, pharmaceutical industry is guilty of profiting from products that are often abused as a quick fix to escape the hardships.

It also shows us that managing symptoms with medication alone is inadequate because it only cushions our ability to handle anguish. A pill cannot change the facts of a life and its context. Experience of pain can be temporarily delayed but it cannot be erased. Soon or later one must begin the tough work to locate the source or the cause of emotional pain. And, if the source of pain is outside ourselves then we must adapt to it or work on changing the environment.